There's no pain like a break-up and we've all been there!   But there is a fine line between real love and co-dependency and sometimes it's hard to know the difference.  Did we really feel loved and happy?  Did the relationship evolve over time and allow us the freedom to shine and be the very best we could be for ourselves and the other person? Grab a pen and paper and let's see if the following questions can shed some light on how it really was....