Wanting a baby and not being able to conceive is absolutely one of the worse pains in life and I know that through personal experience.  Luckily, I was able to raise a little girl that I didn't give birth to and perhaps that was just meant to be.  

However, before she miraculously appeared in my life, I did try several rounds of IVF.  It failed and the pressure it put on my health and my relationship was overwhelming.  If I were to go back in time, I would take a more natural and holistic approach to my desire for a child.